LOSER SHOULD LOOK AFTER THIS.

Mistakes Winners DON’T Make
Why some people with the intelligence to succeed, never do
Sad but true. There are too many people who have the intelligence to succeed’ but never do.
Of course, luck has role. But usually, people make their own bad luck by regularly getting trapped in self defeating attitudes and behavior. Let us see what successful people don’t do.

DELUSIONAL THINKING :
Unsuccessful people constantly lie about their own lives. People who habitually lie and are dishonest with others, can be successful – sad, but true. But it’s absolutely impossible to be dishonest with themselves – about where they are in life – and still go forward.
NOT PRODUCING :
Stragglers fail to acquire any useful skill for which some one will play real money. They fail to recognize that people get paid a lot for being able to do some thing that adds value.
PUNISHING FRIENDS :
Unsuccessful people make a habit of being friendly and grateful to those who are helpful to them & disdainful & ungrateful to those who are kind of them. Losers take their friends for granted – at their own peril. Unless you are uniquely talented, there is no such thing as a success without a network of friends & supporters. The inability to make & keep friends is involved in every single failure.
BAD MANNERS :
Unsuccessful people are also routinely rude. They fail to show up on time, to than people for gifts & to apologize for slights & wrongs. They have a condescending air about them. Maybe billionaires can get away being rude. For the rest of us, it’s a guaranteed success killer.
DRESSING FOR FAILURE :
Unsuccessful people habitually dress inappropriately. While they may think they are making a fashion statement, they are really making a visual statement that they don’t belong where they are & that they have contempt for the people who conform.
BAD ATTITUDES :
The unsuccessful often have a sour, pessimistic outlook. They dislike their work & their world, and assumes that everyone around them is dishonest or stupid. They cast a pall over everything & their own despair & infect the people around them. They lack of confidence in themselves – a deep rooted belief that they can’t do much, or do it well.
NEEDLESS ARGUING :
Unsuccessful people like to argue just for the sake of argument. They may think that by doing so, friends & colleagues will be impressed with how clever they are. They couldn’t be more mistaken. This doesn’t mean you have to agree with everything that is being said. But you can’t aggravate other people endlessly & still expect them to help you.
PUTTING FIRST THING LAST :
Unsuccessful people cannot set priorities. The truth is, there’s never enough time to do everything, even everything of genuine importance. Unsuccessful people, never quite learn that setting priorities or giving up things of lesser importance for those of greater importance.
Maybe you have got some of these habits. Remember, winners always know they can change – and they do. But then you already knew that, right ?
(THIS IS TAKEN FROM A MAIL RECEIVED TO ME BY AFRIEND)